Absolute Trust Betrayed Absolutely
Chronology
May, 1998, Veronica graduates from high school.
June, 1998, Connie decides she does not love me.
August, 1999, Phillip enters sixth grade.
September, 1999, Connie stops saying she loves me.
December, 1999, I discover Connie has been in a relationship with Bruce Story for several months. When I confront her about it, Connie tells me: “I don't love you any more. I’m not sure I ever did. I love Bruce.”
January 4, 2000, 25th Wedding Anniversary.
January, 2000, I ask Bruce to stop seeing Connie for six months to give us time to work on our marriage with a counselor. He says, "I don’t think I can do that."
January, 2000, I ask Connie to stop seeing Bruce for six months to give us time to work on our marriage. She says, “I don’t think I can do that.”
January, 2000 to October, 2001, Connie and Bruce continue their relationship while Connie remains married to me and living in our home.
August, 2001, Chris and Veronica marry.
September, 2001, Connie tells Chris, Veronica, and Phillip she is leaving me.
October, 2001, Connie moves into an apartment and files for divorce.
June, 2002, Divorce final.
August, 2002, Phillip enters high School.
March, 2003, Connie marries Bruce Story
October, 2004, I begin blogging on e-verities.
3 comments:
This really made me cry. I hope you don't mind my commenting, but I just wanted to say that. I don't really know exactly why that entry made me cry, or if it was supposed to, but it just did. sorry...
I'm sorry if it brought you to a point of sadness. It was written as one way for me to work through all of it. Made me cry also, at the time. Less so any more. It's okay to cry if you have something to cry about, healthy even. I'm thinking your compassion brought you to those tears. That's a good thing.
This is so sad. My heart breaks for you. I found myself hating your ex-wife for being so selfish and cruel to someone who couldn't possibly be anywhere near deserving. No one should ever have to go through that, least of all you. I am so very very sorry.
Post a Comment